Hyakujo, the Chinese Zen master, used to labour with his pupils even at the age of eighty, trimming the gardens, cleaning the grounds, and pruning the trees. The pupils felt sorry to see the old teacher working so hard, but they knew he would not listen to their advice to stop, so they hid away his tools. That day the master did not eat. The next day he did not eat, nor the next. “He may be angry because we have hidden his tools,” the pupils surmised. “We had better put them back.” The day they did, the teacher worked and ate the same as before. In the evening he instructed them: “No work, no food.”
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May She Always Know (an ode to my daughter)
I want my daughter
to know her own strength,
to know love without borders,
and dream at great length.
I hope she is brave,
and I hope she reads books,
when people say she’s pretty
–she’ll know it’s more than her looks.
For she’s pretty smart,
and she’s pretty kind.
May she be heard for her voice,
and seen for her mind.
As she grows into a woman
I hope she stands strong.
For some will try to knock her,
but I hope she holds on.
Because her power is great,
and cannot be measured.
Her passion and vulnerability
should always be treasured.
May she know the difference
between right and wrong,
not because of some rules,
but what is in her heart’s song.
May she question the narrative,
make choices, speak clear.
May she never repeat herself
out of doubt or fear.
May she strive for big things
in a world that screams thin,
just as a man’s mistakes
do not define him.
I hope she sticks up for those who need it,
herself included, I hope she believes it.
May no one dim her light,
May it shine
May it grow
What a force that she is.
May she always know.
By unknown
Instant Grounding Techniques: Reclaiming Your Center
Quote of the day…
“Mindfulness is a pause – the space between stimulus and response: that’s where choice lies.”
Tara Brach

Feeling overwhelmed or anxious? These simple yet effective grounding techniques can help you quickly reconnect with the present moment and regain your composure:
1. Deep Breathing:
- The 4-4-4-4 Method: Inhale deeply for 4 seconds, hold for 4 seconds, exhale slowly for 4 seconds, and hold again for 4 seconds.
- Focus on the Breath: Pay close attention to the sensation of your breath as it enters and leaves your body. Feel the rise and fall of your chest.
2. Cold Water Splash:
- Experience the Sensation: Splash cold water on your face, paying attention to the sound and the invigorating feeling on your skin.
- Alternative: If a full face wash isn’t possible, run cold water over your hands and focus on the sensation of the cool water.
3. Mindful Walking:
- Engage Your Senses: Take a short walk, paying attention to your surroundings. Notice the sounds of nature, the feel of the ground beneath your feet, the breeze on your skin.
- Focus on Your Movement: Become aware of each step you take, the rhythm of your breath, and the way your body moves.
4. The 5-4-3-2-1 Method:
- Engage Your Senses:
- Name 5 things you can see.
- Name 4 things you can feel.
- Name 3 things you can hear.
- Name 2 things you can smell.
- Name 1 thing you can taste.
- Grounding Exercise: This simple exercise helps shift your focus to the present moment and away from anxious thoughts.
5. Body Scan Meditation:
- Focus on Each Part: Gently scan your body, starting from your toes and moving upwards.
- Release Tension: Pay attention to any areas of tension and consciously relax those muscles.
- Deep Breathing: Combine the body scan with deep breaths, exhaling as you release tension in each part of your body.
6. Temperature Therapy:
- Hold Something Cold: Hold a cold pack or an ice cube. Focus on the sensation of the cold on your skin.
- Warm Embrace: Hold a warm mug of tea or coffee. Notice the warmth in your hands and the comforting sensation as you sip the beverage.
7. Backward Counting:
- Skip the Routine: Instead of counting down from 100, try counting backward by 3s (100, 97, 94, 91, etc.). This adds a slight challenge and helps maintain focus.
Remember, these are just a few suggestions. Find the grounding techniques that work best for you and practice them regularly. With consistent effort, you’ll be better equipped to manage stress and maintain a sense of calm throughout your day.
The Healing Power of the Written Word: How Writing Can Mend the Soul
Quote of the day…
“Everyone can experience the joy and blessing of generosity; because everyone has something to give.”
Jan Grace

In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by emotions and the constant demands of daily life. But amidst the chaos, writing offers a powerful tool for healing and self-discovery. Whether it’s journaling, poetry, creative storytelling, or simply jotting down your thoughts, the act of putting pen to paper (or fingers to keyboard) can have a profound impact on your mental and emotional well-being.
1. A Pathway to Self-Expression and Clarity:
Our minds are often a whirlwind of thoughts and feelings. Writing provides a safe and structured space to explore these internal landscapes. As you begin to articulate your emotions, patterns and connections may emerge that were previously hidden. This process not only brings clarity but also fosters a deeper understanding of yourself and your inner world.
2. An Outlet for Emotional Release:
Journaling can be a powerful cathartic experience. By giving voice to your frustrations, fears, and joys, you can release pent-up emotions and alleviate feelings of stress and anxiety. The act of writing itself can be therapeutic, transforming chaotic thoughts into something tangible and manageable.
3. A Mirror to Reflection and Growth:
Writing encourages introspection. As you revisit past entries, you can observe your own growth and development over time. Recognizing patterns in your thoughts and behaviors can provide valuable insights into your personality and relationships, fostering personal growth and self-awareness.
4. Building Bridges of Connection and Empathy:
Sharing your written work with others, whether through poetry, stories, or blog posts, can create meaningful connections. When others resonate with your words, it fosters a sense of community and shared understanding. Knowing that you are not alone in your experiences can be incredibly healing and empowering.
5. Unleashing Creativity and Joy:
Engaging in creative writing can reignite your passion and spark joy. Whether it’s crafting a short story, penning a poem, or simply freewriting, the creative process can be a powerful antidote to stress and negativity. It allows you to explore your imagination, envision a brighter future, and reconnect with your inner child.
6. Cultivating Mindfulness and Presence:
The act of writing itself can be a mindful practice. It requires focus and attention, drawing your attention to the present moment. This mindful engagement can help you detach from the constant chatter of your mind and find a sense of peace and tranquility.
In a world that often feels chaotic and overwhelming, writing offers a sanctuary for the soul. It is a powerful tool for self-discovery, emotional healing, and personal growth. So, pick up a pen, open your laptop, and let the words flow. You might be surprised at the profound impact this simple act can have on your well-being.
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